World of Words

The thing that really separates humans from any other animal is the words to express. For this very reason i love the slogan of Airtel “express yourself" . Whether within our own thoughts, spoken or written, words have the power to transform the world we live in. Love, laughter, heroism, friendship, and virtually every emotion we feel as human beings can be inspired by words. Unfortunately, fear, anger, and hatred, can also be invoked by words.

I believe we live only to express what we feel, observe and understand. We communicate in various forms , but words are the most accurate forms of expression ... well here is the catch what if you come in contact with a person who doesn’t know your language and whose language you don’t know . Then I believe you have to trust your instincts for communicating. but do I really need to meet such a person to realise this , nope . Words don’t always express what we feel, they just don’t have the power, maybe one can impress someone through proficient usage of a language, but I wonder if the words can express everything. They create misunderstanding because people think that they are the most accurate form of expression, thus understand the superficial meaning and not the feeling they are meant to express.....

I wish everyone could go back to their instincts to understand the feelings rather than the words... Finding ways to release your emotions in a way that need not involve another is limited only by your imagination……

Regard's

 

Meenakshi

We have only one life to live. But nobody is living, why?

Everybody stresses about things they really don’t want to do, but dream about things they wish they could do...why cant we be more free to live without playing games, or put people down, our minds seem so paralyzed. We naturally get a high of wanting more but sometime forget to be grateful for what we have. and so on.........

Do not be surprised if ask for the importance of women in the life... we ever given a little thought to “the importance of woman”?… am sure all of us would say “yes” what is this funny question... I guess no one would say “no”. So strange if really all of us much capable to understand this sentence then why not could stick on that genuinely, as We found mother sister wife daughter friend in this relationship!!

See..how cruel the world is. HoW!! could People are even ready to throw away affectionate wife and children as they are blindly going behind new life because of lust, money and what not... I was really in deep thinking, even astonished by one on my close, while she shared her b'ful life’s bitter experience and Trust me am not at all feminist but, if I write her real life incedent, sure it would be enough to shed anyones eyes.well how people could become blind in such way, hard to see or believe infact..

Women play such an important part in the life of the family. Their value is beyond measure. No amount of money can adequately compensate a woman for her work. Please don’t see this article as something that deviates for anything personal, infact under as object lesson for all of us. Why so? Because we have eyes that can see the injustice done with the women. The most common habit in India is hiding things in the name of decency which must be clearly discussed and understood. My message is in this article is short and simple and really I have no wish to go deep in this…

But the Fact is life is incomplete without women so we ought to give them importance and all necessities of life as women. I think in the recent days due to experience by observing how the world play with, am able to guess it’s a gift of god’s blessings to get a good hearted wife, good hearted husband and nice peaceful family.



Regards’

Meenakshi

Growth Always Takes Time....

Don’t know how I feel like to write something on this article, more likely could be major interaction with the folks at office who needed to be mentor on this front may be cause, and I believe leader always has to lead the team with positive spirit. Well for me that had been rather difficult to mentor those who have seen more seasoned than me but genuinely I feel pride to share my views and insights......

Truly I believe that Success and Life has no shortcuts. He who would learn to fly one day must have first learned to stand and walk and run and climb and dance, one cannot fly into flying….on my personal front and a professional opinion, whether its life or business, I've always felt that there are no shortcuts. You work hard and build a successful life. You reap what you sow. Nothing good in life comes from a lack of effort. Take the high road.

It’s not about the results, but the process. Good results are the natural outcome of good processes. You can fake the result, but you cannot fake the process. There are no shortcuts in life. Sometimes short cuts are not worth taking. They may bring you quick results but they do not make you become a better, stronger or more skilful person.

The major value in life is not what you get. The major value in life is what you become. Live intentionally; live better that way. Because nothing really happens by chance everything happens for a reason. Every event in our life has meaningful significance.

Meaningful things are deliberately grown and growth always takes time. No one achieves anything of significance overnight.

So, when do we start to keep up? Until then... what happens?

Meenakshi

little short break...

It seems like there are so many people that say “I don’t have time for fun, I have work to do.” Or, “Why worry about having fun? I have too many other things to worry about.” The reason you need to have more fun in your life should be obvious, but to many it’s not. One should understand Life is not fun but it’s not the mean fun in life is not important we should logically distinguish between them i believe.....

A little short break after a long hectic busy official schedule always gives Wow!! Pleasure :) After a long period of time a trip to Adventure island had been a silly ever thing could have been opted so far on my best friend Ragini’s b’day, after long period of time we all close friends (which is actually just a few in numbers) stand together at same place and for me that itself a wonder, since we all make our life double-dyed in this corporate world.. So to gathers us all at same place and time it not small deal hehee. Well we all gathered to have a wild celebration to avoid one more corporate gathering... :)

Normally after a highly tiring time we all wish to relax by having a lazy day to refresh... but here we were all set to grill ourselves...Any way I joined my gauzy people sharp 5:45 pm just after my offz... The moment I entered in the place made me feel like a 10 year old kid though so far I am far more mature ... lol still.. the sophisticated corporate culture make us behave so perfectly ,that we actually get surprised to see our selves at such places....The fact remains that the last thing which I could remember on the name of Amusement was the " GIANT WHEEL" and " COLUMBUS" or the rides which we did in the local exhibitions or dushhera fairs...

This was a different place with same people so feeling remained the same, but experience was certainly going to be different that I was pretty sure. There are so many things which thrust us on same college carefree days memories, really ever good to share the funny incident, but if you really wanna have fun and in no mood to compare this with international ones. we can turn your stresses into fun with an attitude shift if you focus on maintaining a sense of humor in our daily life.. It’s a way to actively seek out fun and happiness instead of waiting for it to come to you….Isn’t?

Regards’

Meenakshi

"Opportunity knocks only once"?

“Opportunity knocks on your doorsteps only once, so grab it” Had you heard this famous adage? If you say "No", I won't dare to believe you:)

anyway, do you agree that "Opportunity knocks only once"? Why or why not?

Please don’t consider me as a specialist in philosophy or anything, am too a common being with common thoughts and morals. we all are born with healthy mind and capable enough for making decision, but for sure may have differ opinion at one point like usual Everyone has an opinion and We are the only ones that can make our own decisions whether it be a good one or bad. The decisions we tend to make when we are under the influence most of the time are poor ones.

In my opinion, an opportunity is like running water in the river which will never return if you let it go. An opportunity that already knocked at you will never again knock same as the way it is. If it will knock again, it will be different - could be better or worse. But we all know that life is not only about luck. According to some experts, luck is only 10% of success. That means, 90% of success depends on YOU.

Opportunities are our chances to grow so if you think you should be grabbing it, then grab it. Successful people are those who grab chances and take risks. They are the people who are known to be risk takers or opportunist. They are the people who dodge their inhibitions and who are not afraid to fall. Successful people are opportunity grabber. They are open to thoughts, changes, and possibilities. But always mind in every opportunity always risk factor should be calculative. Isn’t?

Lastly, I got this message from a friend and I want to share it here with my opinion…that’s what i did.....


Regard’s

Meenakshi

Transformation within oneself

Continuously moving outside your comfort zone is a way of improving yourself. It means that you are forming a change within yourself. You must challenge and motivate yourself even though it is easier than made so that you will come out as a success in the end.


I remember reading a phrase of by one of my Colleague that "One needs to step out of their comfort zone to experience the unexplored things in their lives”. That phrase registered in my mind deeply and I started wondering how true it can be, Although she was typical of herself I started observing and noticing multi-faceted personalities of her day by day right from being cool, composed, modest, humble, considerate, blunt in approach, unintrusive, helpful in developing others to compete with her, disciplined, in freedom of being independent, in love with oneself, hungry for learning new things, and so an so forth.

So, if you are really serious in making changes within yourself then, you can do it. There are ways to transform changes within you. Firstly, you should not keep on discussing about the things you want to accomplish in life. It means that you should take actions on what you want to do. Believe in yourself that you can make it and recognize your strengths rather than saying all over again what you want in life. Through this, you can improve yourself for you are starting to become a doer rather than a chatterer.

Whether it's fear, a lack of confidence, complacency, or other reasons, we often hold back and do not push ourselves. For some reason, somewhere along our life journey, we begin to believe we cannot do hard things. I have learned through hiking experience and other life adventures and challenges though, that we can do hard things. We can do things that are beyond our own wildest imaginations if we allow ourselves to believe and try.



Meenakshi

Different aspects of life....

Creation-Change-Attitude-Belief







Creation-Change-Attitude-Belief



I am immensely inspired to make an endeavor to look into the close relationship and interlink among those words’ meaning, role, impact, capability, influence on human beings.



It has been very difficult for me to disintegrate the role and influence of each element here. All are undeniably interlinked and interconnected .Hence without the presence of one element another can’t exist or make an impact on that part.



CREATION--If there is one thing on the earth that can interest and grab the attention of other human being that can be creation. As a human being we are more concerned about what we create around our place for betterment of ourselves and others and so on. Though I don’t contradict that life is discovery and exploration of oneself .But there is something which can stand out over that is CREATION of our own identity, presence, world, worth in the society. I believe we can create our own world in form of respective identity in the society rather than being destiny-feared human. I also never deny that we are fate/destiny-driven and doomed to become what we want. But there is one unnoticed truth that 80% of our life is dependant on how we respond to the situations and happenings in our life. We tend to cling on to the ordained life rather than working on creating ourselves better identity in the society. Let me shed the insight of creation much more in following topics.



CHANGE--If at all there is one word which can exist on the earth for ever and outlast human beings is that CHANGE that we can notice, create, experience, undergo in our lives. As we say philosophically let us better change ourselves before Change itself changes us for change. What a powerful and hair-raising proverb it was. In nutshell change changes change for change. Other 2 Following topics will tell one how i somewhat created my own identity and changed myself by being inspired by some energy on the spur of moment.



ATTITUDE-I like to share very very meaningful, billion worth and life-changing message by offering my due courtesy and gratitude to the person who created this for posting it here. Message consists the importance of a valuable word coined ATTITUDE.


As a human being, at the end of the day we all want one thing which is happiness. Where and How do we get it is what question arises before everyone.



A small truth to make life 100%. if A,B,C,D,E,F,G,H,I,J,K,L,M,N,O,P,Q,R,S,T,U,V,W,X,Y,Z is equal to 1,2,3,4,5,,6,7,8,9,10,11,12,13,14,15,16,17,18,19,20,21,22,23,24,25,26.


HARDWORK=98% [H=8, A=1, R=18, D=4, W=23, 0= 15, R=18 K=11] kNOWLEDGE=96%, LOVE=54, LUCK=47, [Don’t most of us think this is the most important???? Practically answering most of us say yesss.Then what makes 100%?? Is it MONEY?.......No!!!!!=72%. LEADERSHIP=89%.



Every problem emerges with a solution .Only if we perhaps change our ATTITUDE to go to the top to that 100%.What we really need to go further a bit more.


ATTITUDE=A=1, T=20, T=20, I=9, T=20, U=21, D=4, E=5 =100%


It is our ATTITUDE towards life and work that makes our life 100%!!!!


ATTITUDE is everything .So let us change our attitude and we change our life!!!




This is just to explain and describe that every human is born with some kind of unique thing called ATTITUDE. Let us work on having better attitude for the betterment of ourselves, others, mainly for living happily and more importantly making better environment for other creatures of the world and society itself.



SELF-BELIEF-This is something every one wants to get within themselves from whatever they do as early as possible for confident living in the future. Taking the real situation of mine into consideration that I explained earlier, it is classical example for role of SELF-BELIEF.I went through a situation and feeling with which I felt and questioned myself that did I do something funny/ridiculous/not acceptable?



But when I retrospected, introspected myself and realized later on that one has to believe oneself and in his/her ability which most of times we lack due to overawing and unprecedented exposure which we undergo and pass through quite often in real life as world is full of unexpected happenings.



That is how I started believing in myself and in my ability of doing something like this improving on this day by day for own betterment in that situation. I will be greatly ecstatic and delighted if someone can benefit from this and take the situation as an inspirational incident.

Regard's

Meenakshi